• fxomt@lemm.ee
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    11 days ago

    Ah yes, the infamously transphobic instance, lemmy.blahaj.zone.

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      Well, you see, if you criticize a trans person’s politics, that’s transphobia. Doesn’t matter if their politics are orthogonal to their transness, and it doesn’t matter if you, yourself, are trans.

      Just look at Israel to see how this works.

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      Would you say the nazis were socialist because they called themselves “National Socialists”?

      Anyways, pretty much any time I see trans people talk about that instance, they complain about all the transphobes that gather there (probably to be transphobic to trans people) and mods/admins do nothing about. If an instance is full of transphobia, seems pretty fair to call it transphobic instance.

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        No, i wouldn’t. I was saying that lemmy.blahaj.zone is a trans (and lgbtq in general) inclusive instance.

        I must admit, i don’t know much about the userbase, so i’m not immediately doubting that it could have issues, or outright transphobia. I was just pointing out that the user in the image immediately accused the OP and the instance in general of being transphobic, despite the instance literally being for trans/lgbt+ people.

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          It has nothing to do with “transphobia.” It’s just a way to slap a label on someone you disagree with, out of nowhere, to engage a tribal and reality-free way of thinking where they can be the good guy and you can be the bad guy.

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        if you have damning evidence of blahaj’s unchecked transphobia, i suggest you post that rather than comparing the largest trans instance to the literal nazi party. otherwise put down the hearsay stick.

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          I never compared blahaj instance to nazis. I compared the argument that the name having “blahaj” in it to meaning the instance is inherently free of transphobia to the stupid argument that having “socialist” in its name means nazis are socialists.

          I haven’t had any personal problems and certainly wouldn’t make sure a comparison. Also just realized why its seemed so dead: apparently they defederated with the instance I’m using recently. Seems like they’re at least trying something.

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            cool. however you characterize what you are saying, don’t do it unless you have evidence.

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              Evidence that many trans people feel they’ve experienced lots of transphobia there? Would be easy to find that, but I don’t care to do that for some off-hand comment. My point had nothing to do with blahaj itself, but rather about how common that opinion is from trans people.

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                “trust me bro the evidence is all over the place and its so easy to find it would take me 0 seconds but i don’t want to.”

                thats you. that’s how you sound.

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          have a discussion with person i disagree with ❌

          call them mentally ill ✅

          love this place

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            Choose to keep stupidity to yourself ❌
            Actively choose to say insane shit ✅

            “Why are people calling it crazy to say unhinged shit without prompting”

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              Fun fact you can fit a lighbulb into your mouth but cant get it back out without it breaking.

              Dislocation of the jaw and unhinging doesnt count, the snake people can go back to Reno where they belong.

              I am choosing to say insane nonsequiters for my own amusement.

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                the snake people can go back to Reno where they belong

                NGL, literal snake people from Reno would make for an excellent comic book, movie, or Fallout mod 😄

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                Fun fact you can fit a lighbulb into your mouth but cant get it back out without it breaking.

                hey can you please tell me what to do if you do put a lightbulb in your mouth?

                please respond quickly.

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          I’ve probably only forgotten to take my HRT like a couple times in the last few months. I did accidentally miss my allergy medicine a couple days ago. Never have gotten any medication for ADHD though - my mom was against it when I was a toddler and a doctor tried to prescribe it and I haven’t bothered trying it on my own. Getting a new diagnosis as an adult seems annoying and expensive.

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            I read a stronger implication that you have psychosis than anything else - which is still not cool, for what it’s worth.

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              Was wondering if they’d get more explicit with what they were implying. Probably not after having a couple people point out how its problematic, but they also got a some upvotes from people who might just be upvoting all replies to my comment.

              Still, the ADHD stream-of-conscious posting probably doesn’t help. I’m reminded of the jokes about English classes forcing students to give some explanation of the “meaning” of small details in stories even if the author actually intended no such thing.