My day is looking a little different.

My post started with upvotes. It then led to a bunch of downvotes HOURS after it was initially posted. Just after I added my children’s name to ancestry.com, I received a comment on here that sounded like a threat to frame me as some type of risk to myself or others. Unfortunately, the mods don’t care to enforce the rules that are on the sidebar, with regard to being respectful. All I did was mention my kids on Mother’s Day, and it appears my distant cousins stalked my posts to make sure I would be silent about my children. That, or I’ve had some really disrespectful gang of strangers decide to verbally attack me for no cause that effects their lives whatsoever.

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    Are you…sweeping up their ashes??

    Edit: I feel like I’ve entered a topic of conversation I don’t feel equipped to be a part of, just gonna…slip out of here

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      No, but if the hospital did switch my daughter at birth, after she was born blue and not breathing well on her own, I’m going to be asking where her remains went. Let’s hope they performed a miracle in ICU in 2015 when they carted her away from me in a hurry. I feel like asking for all the hospital surveillance camera footage from the day she was born.

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          My daughter was born with complications in 2015, and was rushed out of the delivery room to the ICU floor of the hospital without me, after birth. I’m still upset over that, and have many questions for the hospital staff who were working there that day. Oh, and someone just downvoted me for discussing my daughter. It’s probably my distant cousins who keep cyber stalking me. God forbid I put my children on Ancestry.com and reveal which P.O.S. male relative actually made them, huh? They have been following my online accounts to encourage me to be silent about my children. I don’t care. Downvotes don’t hurt my feelings. In fact, it makes them waste their time.

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            I read the title, looked at your picture, and read your three comments. I still don’t understand why you posted a picture of cleaning supplies.

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              She’s either an incredibly dedicated troll or suffering from mental illness. She’s convinced her extended family is stalking her, that Lemmy users are doxxing her (even though she’s posted her real name, photos, and a ton of other personal information - apparently clicking her profile is “stalking”), and so on. That’s all from the last week of her post history. You’re not going to get an answer that makes any sense, unfortunately.

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            If you’re so paranoid of your relatives, maybe cut contact or get some therapy

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              This post is 10 hours old. Whoever you are, please stop making new accounts to stalk my account and continuously downvote and harass me.

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                You realise this persons account is also older than yours right?

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    Happy Mother’s Day

    Sorry it’s not going the way you expected. That happens. I hope you can spend some quality time soon

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    You need psychiatric assistance before you hurt yourself or someone else.

    I hope life gets better for you.

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      I never threatened to hurt myself. I haven’t threatened to hurt others. This post is hours old. What did you do, dig through my account to harass me? I guess I’ll report your comment as abusive since you’re trying to frame me for threats I didn’t make.

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        This post is hours old.

        Yes that’s how lemmy works, welcome to lemmy.

        What did you do

        I saw your post and replied.

        dig through my account to harass me?

        Paranoia is a clear sign of mental illness and I repeat, I hope you seek help.

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          I wouldn’t bother. They frequently accuse people of creating alts to harass them. Despite the fact that the majority of said accounts are older than theirs.

          Edited to remove a potentially unhealthy toxic sarcastic remark.

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            I appreciate you don’t want me wasting my time or getting frustrated.

            But as frustrating as it is dealing with people having mental health issues ignoring them is part of the problem at a societal level.

            It’s also important not to entertain their delusions and to encourage them to seek help at every opportunity.

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              I entirely agree and appreciate the sentiment but this person has a history of this and just accusing anyone who makes that suggestion with whatever comes to mind. IRL I’m all for it but at some point as more and more people become aware of this poster pattern of behaviour it become disruptive to the community and the repeated negative pushback can’t be healthy or helping to the poster.

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    I don’t understand what you are trying to say

    Edit: I don’t mean to be rude but you shouldn’t share personal information on the internet and especially not on Lemmy. You might be in need of OpSec first aid

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      This troll is just trying to bait me into a conversation so he can start an argument. Its late. He’s obviously alone. It shows.

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      No. I typically call trolls users that lie. Nothing I have said on Lemmy is a lie. I think this part of Lemmy just digs through each OP’s posts and comments to find out what gender they are, and then they proceed to attack the OP, if OP is female. I won’t bother posting here anymore. It’s just a good ol’ boys club for men to upvote one another.