• Boozilla@lemmy.world
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    Doin’ muh best to shitpost.

    You’re all welcome, citizens!

    Heroic Trumpet Music

    Farting sounds

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    Ehh. What’s the average age around here? I’m guessing it wasn’t the youth that migrated from Reddit.

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    I still haven’t been able to give up reddit but I have always been a lurker there. Here I’m trying to make a conscious effort to participate in conversations. I’m trying to be positive, kind, and thoughtful because that’s what I want lemmy to be.

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      I started to think of Reddit as just an occasional Google search result necessary evil and have successfully ignored it ever since. Log off DKC, there’s a better world out there.

      In all seriousness I think eventually conventional social media will start to feel very siloed like AOL did as more people join the fediverse. I can’t imagine using a site that I couldn’t look at everything from anymore, save for stupid ass Facebook which I do solely for sovcit material. Why would I want to look at crap ads and AI when I can be here?

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        I started to think of Reddit as just an occasional Google search result necessary evil and have successfully ignored it ever since.

        This is my experience. I try to search elsewhere, but consistently still find good info there. Only when I exhaust other options I go crawling back.

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          Oh it’s no biggie if you use it to deshittify Google. It is there, after all. Just treat it like ghetto Wikipedia and don’t hang around. Haha.

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      Similar here. Reddit has become, for better or worse, just another Facebook. I include in my search queries when I need. I get in for specific communities and get out immediately afterwards.

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    Just out of curiosity, how much does it cost per month to run a Lemmy instance? Not that I’d want to do that myself, I’m just grateful for our admins that keep Lemmy up and running.

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      feddit.uk clocks in at under £40/month. That’s hosting, and backups. lemmy.zip is similar.

      Plus our time, but we’re obviously doing it as a labour of love.

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      You can rent an instance for like 10 dollars per month and grow from there. Then expand if you get users and things get slow. Lemmy runs ok on 4 GB of memory but it’s better with 8 GB. Postgres use the most.

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      It depends. I run an instance with a whole two users and it costs me about $25 a month.

      But if I let 200 users join, I would need beefier hardware and a higher bandwidth limit.

      However running an instance like Beehaw is probably on the order of hundreds, not thousands of dollars a month.

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      I’d certainly be interested to know for the sake of donations. I would gladly donate to keep the fediverse alive.

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      I’m curious as well. I want to selfhost a personal instance, but CGNAT is getting on the way. I can always pay for VPS, but then the recent shenanigans involving CSAM images potentially being synced from rogue instances scared me.

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    Thank You, BotM! I migrated here from the corporate social medias as soon as I was aware. I’m still transferring my OC over from IG (not an easy task) to Pixelfed. And I use similar talking points to inform people, often about the very existence of a non-comercial social media. Very few people, maybe 2, since July '23 have even heard of the Fediverse. We shall persist!

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      I’m just learning about Pixelfed from your comment. Any suggestions on where to start or instances to subscribe to?

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        I signed on to https://social.photo/. And I’m sure I had darned good reasons for doing so at the time. LoL With federation, I’m not really sure it matters which instance one signs onto, as long as it’s not some tankie/nazi crap, of course. And of course one could self host one’s own instance.

        It appears to me that, because of the absence of advertising, it is incumbent upon individuals to ‘evangelize’ and spread the fedi-gospel. :-D

    • BonesOfTheMoon@lemmy.worldOP
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      I truly believe the fediverse is the future. People will tire of the AI and all that nonsense and fade away from all the big sites.

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    For Lemmy.world a donation would help keep it alive without all the crap. Servers are cheaper then they were, but still not cheap.

    Ko-Fi (Donate)

    Bunq (Donate)

    Open Collective backers and sponsors

    Patreon

    Liberapay patrons

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      OMG! Thank you so much ❤️❤️❤️

      It’s not easy keeping things up sometimes, but we’re always looking for ways to deliver more for less, while still keeping things snappy.

      It’s hard, but without the community, we would just be some nerds with too much time on our hands 😅

      Much love for y’all!!!

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      Yeah but on the other hand Lemmy world sucks and it would be good for the overall health of the Fediverse if they ran out of money and had to shut down. Give that donation to a smaller instance who actually needs it. World is already the biggest and they don’t need to get bigger.

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    “the future of social media” reminds me of “the year of the Linux desktop”. Like, what does that mean to you?

    The most obvious explanation is that you think it will overtake corporate social media entirely. Or even exist anywhere on the same level. But that seems unrealistic.

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      Yeah, but we’ve been on this stressful ride before, and we know where it ends.

      There were lots of attempts at a closed source proprietary Internet protocol. They have all resoundly failed, after looking unbeatable. Some folks still fondly remember the closed Internet protocols like OLE COM, ActiveX, Flash, Cold Fusion, and SilverLight, but few of us miss them. Okay, I do miss Flash games.

      Good touchscreen phone operating systems were a “will this ever be matched?” trade secret at Blackberry and Apple. Now the vast majority of phones run open source Android.

      Much earlier, most good-enough C compilers were expensive proprietary closed source products. Now I see very little being compiled on anything other than the free and open source GCC. Even most other programming languages and tools are now FOSS, as well. I can’t think of much for development that cracks the top 20 that isn’t FOSS. JetBrains IDEs stand out as a lone closed source hold-out.

      Open standards always win, in the end.

      The desktop computing default is honestly way overdue to switch to FOSS. That’s why it’s the year of the Linux desktop.

      The Fediverse is here to stay, and is all that’ll be left in a couple decades. But in the meantime, it’s cozy!

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        They have all resoundly failed, after looking unbeatable

        “Failed” how? Failed in that they sucked to use, yeah. Failed as in people stopped using them? No. Failed as in their profits plummeted? No. Their users are gluttons for abuse and exploitation. And their users are nearly everyone I know. They don’t care.

        Now the vast majority of phones run open source Android.

        No they don’t. It’s only ~50% of the US market and ~60% of the global market. Also at the time it was a very competitive market and OEMs like Nokia and Motorola all had their day. That hasn’t been true since the original iPhone some 15 years ago.

        Open standards always win, in the end.

        LOL no they don’t? In fact they almost always don’t.

        The desktop computing default is honestly way overdue to switch to FOSS.

        It will never be, for the same reason it has a whopping 4% today. It’s complicated and difficult to use, and no one is spending money on marketing to convince people to even try it.

        The Fediverse…is all that’ll be left in a couple decades.

        That’s nothing but a wild utopian delusion…

        Honestly, I wish it were true. I wish you were right. I wish people respected themselves to take the time and learn about all the corporations that are fucking up their lives, and to take the time and learn how to take the according action, but at best they don’t care, and more often then not they will actually go out of their way to defend the corporations that are fucking them. If they cared, the corporations wouldn’t be able to fuck them, and we would live in a completely different world.

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          Failed" how? Failed as in people stopped using them? No. Failed as in their profits plummeted? No.

          What the actual fuck?

          I gave several concrete examples whose usage was originally seen as unassailable, and is now easily measured as essentially zero.

          Of the examples I listed, only Shockwave still has any publicly recorded examples of actual continued use, because there’s a virtual museum dedicated to preserving it’s memory.

          That’s a fine definition of a failed technology.

          You’re out of your element, Donny.

          Edit: Your other points are essentially that those technologies aren’t at their dominant phase yet. I can agree about that.

          If you still need convincing (your clearly do) about open standards, read the history of licensed screwdrivers. Closed standards either die off, or become open ones. There are no exceptions.

          Windows and iOS are both notable because, in my expert opinion, both have already missed their window of time when they could have become successful open standards.

          Their respective owners actually realize that, as well. IBM Mainframe also missed that window, and there’s history available to read. We are now seeing the same business patterns (as IBM Mainframe) with Windows and iOS.

          Incidentally, IBM Mainframe actually doesn’t qualify for my failed technology list, because it’s still holding on. Windows probably has similar staying power to IBM Mainframe (hanging on in zombie death for decades). iOS isn’t lucky enough to live on huge expensive machines that are hard to move, though. It’s not going to be as lucky.

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            My guy, you are completely overreacting.

            OLE COM, ActiveX, Flash, Cold Fusion, and SilverLight

            I don’t know what any of these things are but I’m pretty sure they’re not popular social media platforms. If you don’t understand why that matters then you have a fundamental lack of understanding of the situation as it stands.

            You’re out of your element, Donny.

            …who? are you talking to?

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              who? are you talking to?

              Sorry. Movie quote. The Big Labowski. Check it out. It’s fun. For context, the guy that says that line is a blowhard, not to be taken too seriously. (Like me!)

              I don’t know what any of these things are but I’m pretty sure they’re not popular social media platforms. If you don’t understand why that matters then you have a fundamental lack of understanding of the situation as it stands.

              I understand network effects. All of my examples had large network effects supporting them, in their time.

              Seriously. Open standards win. It takes flipping forever sometimes. But they do. Check into the screwdriver thing. It’s a cool read. Or for something more recent, the histories of open and closed web browsers. I think you’ll find it encouraging.

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                Open standards win. It takes flipping forever sometimes. But they do.

                Did XMPP win? Did RSS win? Did Linux win? These open standards have been around for decades and are still not widely adopted. At what point are they considered a failure?

                Is ActivityPub winning? At best it has stalled after gaining a few defectors like myself from those who are unwilling to tolerate bullshit. But at this point I think it’s abundantly clear that there is no amount of abuse that the majority of users won’t tolerate on proprietary platforms.

                When open standards win, it’s usually because the platform was built on them, like email or podcasts.

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                  Did XMPP win?

                  That remains to be seen. I’ll gladly accept XMPP as a point in the “against” column, as it has a long way to go, if it succeeds.

                  Google succeeded handily at their last round of embrace, extend, extinguish, against XMPP, by dropping support from Google Chat.

                  It’s worth noting that the question isn’t really whether XMPP replaces WhatsApp, it’s whether it can unseat SMS.

                  SMS is seriously entrenched. I don’t know it’s state of openess. My understanding is it’s mostly run/owned by a few large proprietary players.

                  https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/SMS

                  Again, I’m happy to concede that XMPP looks doomed today, like RSS did a couple decades ago.

                  Did RSS win?

                  RSS certainly hasn’t won, yet. But RSS is doing fine, behind the scenes. Most of the RSS the average person interacts with doesn’t look, to them, like RSS. There’s a lot of RSS still in wide use, today. Competing solutions are currently enshitifying (Google Search, Reddit, Facebook, Xitter), while RSS is still free and still just works.

                  That’s not an automatic win for RSS, until you consider that RSS has already outlived WebCrawler, Digg, MySpace and GeoCities, among others.

                  I’m calling it early in favor of RSS.

                  We’ve agreed that I am prone to do so, though.

                  Did Linux win?

                  Yes. Linux won. The vast majority of computation today runs on Linux.

                  Windows used to hold a serious percentage of web hosting. My best guess is it was around half. The current percentage is unknown, but generous estimates put it at 3%, at most. For some context, the Azure cloud (Microsoft’s web hosting that Office 365 runs on) is known to mostly run on Linux.

                  But to address the other part of your question:

                  Is Windows desktop going away?

                  Something mostly proprietary that costs money and is called Windows with be with us for a long time.

                  But the Windows kernel is counting it’s final days now, while most people haven’t noticed.

                  The Windows kernel is cool, but it’s a pure cost center and no longer offers anything that Linux doesn’t.

                  Game developers noticed, this year. I personally, held onto Windows desktop for decades, solely for gaming. I suspect the shift this year will turn out to be a key moment in the spin down of the Windows kernel.

                  A desktop OS has a ton of moving pieces. We’re currently seeing the natural trend for those pieces to take advantage of existing open solutions.

                  I predict that we will see more and more of that, until the switching cost reaches the current low cost of switching web browsers.

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                  When open standards win, it’s usually because the platform was built on them, like email or podcasts.

                  That’s the perception I’m trying to counter with the web technology examples I gave above.

                  I was there building the web, on proprietary products, and I believed that, myself.

                  I’m delighted to report that I was wrong.

                  It took decades, but the far less visible corner of the web running on open technologies is now the only portion we currently still have.

                  With a big delightful exception for Shockwave Flash, and the folks valiantly keeping it alive to preserve it’s part in gaming history.

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      Hard to tell imo. Big tech has a lot of big advantages and disadvantages over us.

      Being centralized and heavily funded, it’s a lot easier for them to rapidly create/change new things, for better or for worse. It also means they do a lot of the testing for us. Mastodon/Lemmy formats are figured out from what we liked from proprietary platforms, then we kept the core that made it good. We also don’t need to make a worse user experience by worrying about monetization.

      We also have a lot less development, and I won’t even pretend that Mastodon or Lemmy are anywhere near well developed as Reddit/Twitter backends and other software. We simply don’t have the attention and funding to be anywhere near that level.

      I don’t think we’ll ever replace big tech, but I just hope we stay on a healthy trajectory where we are alongside them in popularity.