I know this is kind of random. I’ve got a black necklace with a long round pendant on it, and I think I look better topless when I wear it. I’m not sure why.

  • Ada@lemmy.blahaj.zone
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    1 month ago

    If you think you look better with it on, then chances are you do look better with it on, because you’ll feel hotter and more confident! So wear it :)

  • Melobol@lemmy.ml
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    If you want to wear a necklace or - anything - you should just do it.
    I know it’s hard to believe when you are still young, but when you are wearing somersetting YOU like, it will make you happy. And a happy person is attractive.
    It’s just a plus that any chosen accessory will attract people who have the same taste :)

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    Irrelevant.

    Do you think that necklace makes you look sexy? Does it give you confidence to wear it out? Great! Confidence is sexy. Having something you do for yourself is sexy. Anyone who falls for you is gunna probably think that necklace is cool either because they are gunna associate it with you and it is gunna make them smile because you obviously like wearing it. Think of the accessory worn by your favorite character - that could be how someone who really likes you reacts to your accessory in the future.

    If someone thinks it’s not their style or thinks it looks dumb if it’s a deal breaker they kinda shallow and you’re better off without… and if they value your feelings they are gunna think your attachment to the thing is cute.

    Embrace the pendant. Life is too short to deny yourself the things you like.

  • Captain Aggravated@sh.itjust.works
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    Straight male here, I’m not who you asked but here’s some data. I wear a small silver chain, it was given to me as a teenager and I very rarely take it off. Basically every woman I’ve slept with has grabbed it to pull me down to kiss me.

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    Hot. Also depends on the body shape, it’s like a welcome sign down to a good time if he’s cut nice. A happy trail (hair that leads from the bellybutton to navel pubic region.) on a dad bod also fits the aesthetic.

    Correction provided by @Drusas@kbin.run

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    It will depend on the person but for me personally I love crazy fashion, my ideal world is where everyone dressed like they were in Jojo’s Bizarre Adventure. So a necklace with a massive gemstone that looks like it contains the souls of a long dead race is ideal.

  • braxy29@lemmy.world
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    welcome to fashion. you can add things to the body that emphasize good stuff, detract from stuff you don’t like, draw the eye in a particular direction, create an illusion, break up an expanse, etc.

    enjoy!

  • Call me Lenny/Leni@lemm.ee
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    1 month ago

    Not particularly, I’m indifferent to necklaces. Can’t really judge, I have both a church necklace and a waistlet.

  • Drusas@kbin.run
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    Generally no, but I’m not going to be put off by it unless there’s something particular to the necklace that I dislike.

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    If I find the particular body in question attractive, then jewelry will serve to enhance that experience for me. It accentuates the shapes.