• Flying Squid@lemmy.world
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    5 months ago

    This is how this conversation would go with my wife and I:

    “Oh god! You’re finally awake!!! Babe, you’ve been asleep for two years!!!”

    “What are you talking about?”

    “Look how long you’ve been gone!”

    “Everything looks exactly the same as when I went to sleep.”

    “No it isn’t! Look at my hair!”

    “Oh, did you get a haircut? It looks nice.”

    I’m not good with details.

  • BonesOfTheMoon@lemmy.world
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    5 months ago

    My husband shaved his beard when I was napping one day and came to wake me up. I had no idea who he was.

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    5 months ago

    You ever be dating a girl with hair extensions and try to run your fingers through her hair? And that’s how you found out she had extensions? Surprise! Hair extensions are bullshit.

  • Jax@sh.itjust.works
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    5 months ago

    Am I the only one that would probably be gaslit into believing it and be really really pissed off when I learned the truth?

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      It would depend on how long the joke goes on and to what extreme. “5 minutes super confused, until I look at my phone” = okay "An elaborate prank where she changed all the dates that lasts 20 minutes = okay “A day of being told my family died, world ended, etc” = not okay.

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      5 months ago

      As someone who doesn’t like April Fools’, I see your point. This plays with the trust of their relationship. However, if the trust is solid and there is a mutual understanding of how they can play with that trust, it’s probably fine.

      I guess it depends on the couple, e.g. how frequently they joke in a similar manor, what they know about their trigger points or if there is a hidden struggle for power. I think for most couples this would be a harmless prank both can laugh about and kiss afterwards.

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      5 months ago

      Honestly I would be angry too. But then after I would have completely woken up I would laugh about it. And think of a payback. Maybe even something involving a moist, cold sponge.

    • tal@lemmy.today
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      5 months ago

      I think it’d be funny. But different strokes for different folks, I reckon.

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      5 months ago

      Yes, yes you are. And I sincerely hope for the women around you that you’re single. That’s not healthy and you should probably seek counseling.

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        5 months ago

        Jumping to conclusions on little to no evidence is a bigger red flag than a person who blindly trusts their partner when abruptly shaken awake.